"Imagine Developing Better Relationships' with NLP's empowering counseling techniques

Picture enriched love relationships . . . feeling closer to your spouse . . . children . . . parents . . . family or friends

See yourself feeling confident within yourself . . . and comfortable socially or dating

Women marry men expecting them to change and they don't . . .
Men marry women expecting her 'not' to change and women do change . . .

Release unhealthy relationship issues (the ex?) and 'unlearn co-dependency' with NLP techniques that stop your brain's unhealthy co-dependency programs in their tracks. Discover if you have boundary issues.

NLP builds parenting skills so you effectivly and comfortably 'guide your children to live by your family values'.

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10 Common Primary Relationship Problems:

1. I keep looking for 'mr or mrs right'. No one measures up and I can't commit.
2. I want to improve all of my relationships, but I don't know how
3. I want to be more confident with 'that person' (the boss, ex, dad, etc.)
4. I feel unheard or unimportant in relationship(s). (see assertiveness/boundaries)
5. I feel confused. Should I stay or go. I don't know how to 'fix' my problems.
6. I feel hurt. I need to heal loss, divorce,and forgive myself and others
7. I see problems in our (good) relationship that I want to fix.
8. I need to improve my communication skills and understanding
9. I go from one 'bad' relationship to another. I pick co-dependent people
10. I don't want to be hurt again. I'm afraid to date or love and move forward.

Testimonial: Working with Jan was a miracle. I thought that I had made a huge mistake with my husband. I felt unheard, scared and belittled. Jan helped me recognize and change childhood relationship patterns. I'm happier. I feel confident and secure in my marriage. Thank you Jan . . . . Mandy, age 24, singer, Florida USA

Most relationship issues are healed within you, although they involve a 'we', you and your partner (or you and your child or friends), by changing your thoughts, attitudes and beliefs with the many NLP Relationship Strategies.

If you concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul ~ Rabbi Harold Kushner

You can not change your spouse, child or any other person. You can just change yourself. My NLP counseling expands your mind and guides you to change your perception of him/her; how you relate in your relationship and how you care for yourself. You clear up negative emotions, issues and beliefs and engage a positive frame of mind to focus on the right tools to solve the problem.

Men & women, are much oftener led by their hearts than by their understandings~ Lord Chesterfield

Working on your relationships and how you think of, experience and relate to your spouse (or other's you are in relationships with like friends, family, children, co-workers, socially etc.). My NLP program has many strategies to work on your relationship(s) that could improve the mental, emotional, physical and Spiritual aspects of them (depending on your desires). It is a process of 'removing the garbage or issues that stop you from having healthy positive relationships and focusing on the positive qualities of your partner and the general relationship. We enhance the positive 'We'; improve your communication skills, notice the patterns that were not working and make changes to what is in your control.

"Deep within man dwell those slumbering powers; powers that would astonish him, that he never dreamed of possessing; forces that would revolutionize his life if aroused and put into action." Orison Swett Marden

Co-dependency Is Passed On From One Generation to The Next Generation:

Codependency is a painful 'mental program' running in your mind of learned fears, limiting beliefs, self sabotage and compulsive behaviors that developed when you were young (often in childhood).

Growing up in a co-dependent family leads to low self confidence, where you believe that you are not OK. NOT: good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, fast enough, tough enough, not enough. You may have learned that life is hard, there isn't enough 'for you' and more.

Limiting co-dependent 'mental programs' also cause poor boundaries, poor self esteem, over sensitivity to what other people say or do, unhappiness, many relationship problems, compulsive behaviors, both soft and hard addictions, anxiety, depression, weight issues, dis-ease, guilt, anxiety, shame, self doubt, excess anger and self abuse manifests in many ways.

A codependent person disconnects from painful feelings, find ways to protect themselves through behavior, work, unhealthy relationships, addictions or obsessions.

Insanity is the way many people live their lives . . . doing the same painful things
over and over. . . passed on generation after generation. Stop the Insanity!

Some people from codependent families seem to have overcome the limiting beliefs to build confidence. They may 'appear' to have healed, but instead they have developed better or hidden or more acceptable (in our culture being a workaholic is acceptable), coping strategies. Unless they have done the healing work, they could have a 'false' sense of security'. There may be harmful hidden tendencies driving them, like unhealthy perfectionism.

Testimonial: In just 10 sessions Jan helped me heal old co-dependent patterns, release anger and deal with my emotions. She helped me understand that I deserve to be happy. Her counseling helped me accept myself and others. She helped me get rid of 'could have, would have and should have'. She taught me to use positive tools, to be in the 'now moment', to trust my instincts, realize my dreams and live my life. Abused mom, 36 years, Divorced, returned to school full time