Find out how to "Re-energize Your Relationships' with NLP's empowering relationship counseling techniques. Discover if you need to improve your boundaries

NLP coaches you to 'Un-learn Codependency'. My NLP counseling stops your brain's codependency programs in their tracks. Learn how codependency is passed on in families (below)

NLP counseling improves your parenting skills. Learn to 'guide your children to live within family values'.

Women marry men expecting them to change and they don't . . .
Men marry women expecting her 'not' to change and women change tremendously

10 Common Primary Relationship Problems:

1. I want to improve my relationships and make smarter choices
2. I want to be more confident with 'that person'
3. I feel unheard or unimportant in relationship(s). I need healthy boundaries
4. I feel confused. Should I stay or go. I don't know how to 'fix' my problems.
5. I feel hurt. I need to heal loss, divorce,and forgive myself and others
6. I keep looking for 'mr or mrs right'. No one measures up and I can't commit.
7. I see problems in our (good) relationship that I want to fix.
8. I need to improve my communication skills and understanding
9. I go from one 'bad' relationship to another. I need to deal codependency
10. I don't want to be hurt again. I'm afraid to date or love and move forward.

Testimonial: Working with Jan was a miracle. I thought that I had made a huge mistake with my husband. I felt unheard, scared and belittled. Jan helped me recognize and change childhood relationship patterns. I'm happier. I feel confident and secure in my marriage. Thank you Jan . . . . Mandy, age 24, singer, Florida USA

Most relationship issues are healed within you, although they involve a 'we', you and your partner (or you and your child or friends), by changing your thoughts, attitudes and beliefs with the many NLP Relationship Strategies.

If you concentrate on finding whatever is good in every situation, you will discover that your life will suddenly be filled with gratitude, a feeling that nurtures the soul ~ Rabbi Harold Kushner

You can not change your spouse, child or any other person. You can just change yourself. My NLP counseling expands your mind and guides you to change your perception of him/her; how you relate in your relationship and how you care for yourself. You clear up negative emotions, issues and beliefs and engage a positive frame of mind to focus on the right tools to solve the problem.

Men & women, are much oftener led by their hearts than by their understandings~ Lord Chesterfield

Working on your relationships and how you think of, experience and relate to your spouse (or other's you are in relationships with like friends, family, children, co-workers, socially etc.). My NLP program has many strategies to work on your relationship(s) that could improve the mental, emotional, physical and Spiritual aspects of them (depending on your desires). It is a process of 'removing the garbage or issues that stop you from having healthy positive relationships and focusing on the positive qualities of your partner and the general relationship. We enhance the positive 'We'; improve your communication skills, notice the patterns that were not working and make changes to what is in your control.

"Deep within man dwell those slumbering powers; powers that would astonish him, that he never dreamed of possessing; forces that would revolutionize his life if aroused and put into action." Orison Swett Marden

Co-dependency Is Passed On Generation to Generation:

Codependency is a painful program running in your mind of learned fears, limiting beliefs, self sabotage and compulsive behaviors. They were developed to help you handle perceived or real problems during your childhood.
Codependency is passed on generation after generation. Limiting programs were created when you were young, usually to protect you in some way. (co-dependency doesn't always make sense).
Now, these limiting co-dependent programs cause problems with poor boundaries, low self confidence, poor self esteem, over sensitivity, unhappiness, compulsive behaviors, (soft and hard) addictions, anxiety, depression, weight issues, dis-ease and many problems in relationships.
Growing up in a co-dependent family often leads to low self confidence, where you believe that you are not OK, not good enough, pretty enough, smart enough, fast enough, tough enough, not enough. You may have learned that life is hard, there isn't enough 'for you' and more. Guilt, anxiety, shame, self doubt, depression, anger and self abuse manifests in many ways. You begin to disconnect from painful feelings, find ways to protect yourself through behavior, work, relationships, addictions or obsessions.

Insanity is the way many people live their lives . . . doing the same painful things
over and over. . . passed on generation after generation. Stop the Insanity!

Some people from codependent families seem to have overcome the limiting beliefs to build confidence. They may 'appear' to have healed, but instead they have developed better or hidden or more acceptable (in our culture being a workaholic is acceptable), coping strategies. Unless they have done the healing work, they could have a 'false' sense of security'. There may be harmful hidden tendencies driving them, like unhealthy perfectionism.

Testimonial: In just 10 sessions Jan helped me heal old co-dependent patterns, release anger and deal with my emotions. She helped me understand that I deserve to be happy. Her counseling helped me accept myself and others. She helped me get rid of 'could have, would have and should have'. She taught me to use positive tools, to be in the 'now moment', to trust my instincts, realize my dreams and live my life. Abused mom, 36 years, Divorced, returned to school full time

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