!) Go down the list quickly. Mark “N” where you are now and “F” where you want to be in the future.
2) On the left side put an "X" where you need to focus first and make changes.
3) Then ask yourself: (a) What stops you from being balanced?
(b) What do you want more of? (c) What would you like to do about this? (d) What are you willing to do about it? (e) What are you going to do about this Now? (f) Take a deep breath & Take Action! Just Do It!!
| There is no ‘correct balance’ for you. Our level of balance changes over time depending on where your life is. Are you single? Have a 9 to 5 job or career 12 hour days? In a relationship? Children? A working divorced parent? Divorced with grown children? Retired? Widowed? Or if you are a ‘supporting caregiver personality’, then this chart will lead you towards improved self care. |
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Quality self care |
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Career |
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Quality self care |
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Family/social life |
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Quality self care |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Partner |
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Family |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Career |
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Children |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Partner |
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Giving |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Receiving |
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Love |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Fear |
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Heart |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Head |
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Being |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Doing |
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Intention |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Action |
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Right Brain |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Left Brain |
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Intuition |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Thinking |
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Confident |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Learning new |
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People |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Material World |
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Happy |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Unhappy |
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Trust |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Non-trust |
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Creativity |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Logical mind |
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I Know |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
I Learn |
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Proactive |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Reactive |
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Optimistic |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Worry |
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Prepared |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Winging it |
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Saying yes |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Saying no |
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Supported |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Independent |
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Spiritual |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Physical world |
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Accountable |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Confused |
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Rest |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Energetic |
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Eat healthy |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Health problems |
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Relax |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Active |
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Flexible |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Stubborn |
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Content |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Personal stretch |
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‘In the moment’ |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Worry what others think |
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Grateful |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Ungrateful |
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Being |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Having |
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Safe |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Fearful |
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Free |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Stuck |
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Faith |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Doubt |
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Courageous |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Scared |
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Confident |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Stuck in negative thoughts |
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Leading |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Following |
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Energetic |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Exhausted |
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Acceptance |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Resistence |
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Joyful |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Calm |
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Living |
1. . . 2. . . 3 . . 4. . . 3 . . . 2 . . .1 |
Planning |